Yesterday morning, very early, I had this odd sensation. I remember lying in bed, as I have done for the past month, recovering from full-knee replacement surgery. I hadn’t been sleeping well for that month, so I just figured it was part of the process, wailing and flailing and general discomfort.
And then I heard an ancient song, by the Shangri-las, whispering lyrics to their hit song, “Remember”:
(Remember) walking in the sand
(Remember) walking hand-in-hand
(Remember) the night was so exciting
(Remember) smile was so inviting
(Remember) then she touched my cheek
(Remember) with her fingertips
Softly, softly we'd meet with our lips
And then, I remembered.
The same day, a Saturday, 23 years ago to the day, February 17, 2001, I got a call from the care center where my wife Lizanne was. It was 5:30 AM. “Mr. Cevola, you need to come. Your wife doesn’t have much more time.”
So, I got up, fed the cat, got dressed and headed out to say good-bye to my dear wife.